Saturday 29 June 2013

28/6 Dice numbers

Good dice results

1 = He chooses outfit for her to dress up in
2 = Release date reduced by 2 weeks
3 = He is handcuffed to bed while she teases but he can not touch her and she decides how long, it could be 5 mins, it could be 50 mins  
4 = Release date reduced by 4 weeks
5 = After he has pleasured her, He gets to enter her once for every week locked
6 = Release date reduced by 6 weeks and double tease

Bad dice results

1 = No tease tonight
2 = Release date increased by 2 weeks
3 = Roll dice again number rolled is number of strikes, She will whip his bum, any hits that do not leave a red mark do not count
4 = Release date increased by 4 weeks
5 = He is tied naked on all 4s to the radiator in shower room for minimum of 30 mins while she watches TV or reads
6 = Release date increased by 6 weeks and no tease for 2 weeks

28/6 Update

I'm at 32 days but still not locked properly :-( very disappointing.

We been talking things through and have come up with some good rules.

Every Friday she throws a dice. 
There are 2 sets of outcomes, good or bad. It depends on how she thinks I have been the previous 7 days.

Last Friday she said I had been good and bad so she threw one of each, I thought this was very cleaver of her.

We seem to make such good progress and she has some great ideas but for some reason she can't seem to take responsibility for keeping me locked

Wednesday 19 June 2013

19/6 Update

Unfortunately she left the key out yesterday evening. I was very disappointed, I'm at 21 days and the temptation to cheat now is very strong.

I took it off with the key and slept the night free.

My will power was good, I didn't cheat.

She made it up to me tonight with a good tease and we are back on track.

I hope she doesn't leave it out again :-(

Monday 17 June 2013

Good way to cool it down to get chastity cage back on


17/6 Update

It's still going well.
We had great cuddles last night, pleasure for her and tease for me.
I was let out this morning to go to work, that is then when it normally goes wrong she normally forgets to make sure I lock up when I get home. 
Not tonight, as soon as I got it "go lock up" 

Looks like we are back on track......

Saturday 15 June 2013

Another great key on an ankle chain


It could be an interesting punishment for bad behaviour


15/6 Update

So we seem to be back on track. I've been locked for the past 3 day, also I was a bit rude to her tonight so she added 2 days to my release date.
I love it when she does something like that, I enjoy seeing her using the power I have given her over me.

Lets see how we go over the next few days 

Wednesday 12 June 2013

Hours of fun for her

She looks like she means it

Chastity key on a necklace is so sexy


Sorry it’s been a while

Sorry it’s been a while since I posted. Our last session ended on Valentine in February, so we played for about 8 weeks in all.
It that time she was very good, she made sure I was locked up as much as possible and she really got into the tease and denial. She also go very used to demanding what she wanted and using threat of no tease or extra time locked to get what she wanted. All in all it was a great time. Release night was excellent, she made it really special for me………

So why the no posting for a long time? Well we slipped back into normal vanilla.

I’m not too sure why, the plan as to allow me freedom for a week or so then lock back up. I got ill and she didn’t have the heart to force me back in, one thing led to another, life got busy and time has flown.

So why the post now? Well we are supposed to be playing again…..

Why would I say we are supposed to be rather than we are?
Well we started talking about playing again a month or so ago, on and off we talked and she really wanted to play. Very similar to last time there were a couple of times where we I had last orgasms but then I chickened out of locking up and she never forced me. This happened a couple of times.
We agreed one last time and there was no backing out, she would make sure I was locked no excuses.
The night came, everything was great. She teased me and she said she wouldn’t let me know how long I was to be denied for until after I had cum, I though t that was an excellent move on her behalf. Sometimes she plays the game like an expert.

She later said the lock up time would be 3 months, WOW I was impressed, I always wanted her to be tougher with her demands, This felt to me like a big step forward. I know she finds it hard being in control and being dominant. The strange thing is I long to please her, so the more she demands of me and the more I do things for her the happier we both are. For example when she lets me give her pleasure whilst I’m locked it makes me so happy I can’t explain why, she seems to have much more intense orgasms when I’m pleasuring her whilst I’m locked so she must get some sort of extra pleasure out of being in control. When I offer her pleasure and she says she doesn’t want any my heart sinks.

It was all good, I was locked for a few days then I had to take a flight. The device came off and since she hasn’t really been interested in playing.
Things in our life are really busy and I appreciate that, so far its been 2 weeks, I’ve been true to the game but I don’t think I can hold out much longer unless she takes control. I’ve emailed her twice about it but neither time did she reply.

Really disappointed, it was difficult last year to get things going, but once we were off we were off and it was great for both of us.

I’m sure she wants to play as she was so keen when we discussed it a month or so ago, I’ve tried to talk but she doesn’t reply, I’ve locked up and left the key but when I come back its in the same place. I

Thursday 17 January 2013

17/1 Update

Just a short update.
I'm still locked, things are going very well.
We've had lots of conversations and she is very happy playing the game.
She still needs a bit of reassurance every now and then, it's almost as if she feels guilty about all what she gets whilst in her perception I'm getting very little.
I reassure her that I'm very happy and I enjoy the teasing and cuddles etc.

Today was interesting I locked up last night and left the keys next to her bed, this is part of the normal rule she has set up. She was busy getting ready this morning, I went upstairs to collect the empty glasses and I thought with the amount of rushing around she was doing there was no way she would have remembered to put my key in the lock box.
Imagine my shock when I went up there and it was gone.
I here you say why so surprised? Well in the past we've played well for a few days then she kept leaving the keys laying around (read earlier posts).

It was a pleasant surprise, then the realisation really hit me, I'm locked in a custom made metal device that I can't get off if I want too. She has total control and she is playing the game seriously !
I sent her a text when she had gone.
Her reply..........Ha ha xx

Perhaps I am in trouble?
Perhaps I am creating a monster?

Friday 11 January 2013

11/1 Update

Tonight was a special tease night.
I have been looking forward to it all week, though I wasn't too sure what to expect.
I did think about giving her some ideas but that would undermine her position and be a little bit like topping from the bottom so I decided just to go with the flow.

Well I was glad I did, she gave me an excellent tease, the best ever. She thought it through and it was amazing.
She is getting very confident with the game which is great and she really knows how to press my buttons.

I thanked your for an amazing experience. She really enjoyed herself and said to why doesn't everyone play this game.
A clear sign that she is become hooked.

Thursday 10 January 2013

Maybe

Sometimes it does feel as though if they were squeezed enough this could happen.

I wonder



10/1 Update

It's been another good couple of days. No physical teasing as such, a few nice cuddles and very passionate kisses.

Yesterday she texted me on the way home from work to remind me to lock up as soon as I get in or there will be no special tease on Friday.
Today she didn't mention anything, I came home a thought to myself I had better lock up just in case she's does remember though I was a bit disappointed she hadn't mentioned anything.
Well I was wrong at 7.30 she said "have you got it on? You know the rules if you haven't no tease tomorrow"
It was a test, I was so glad I had put it on otherwise I would have missed out, very cleaver of her, now every night I will lock up without her having to remind me.
I must admit when she didn't mention anything to start with I thought the game had come to an end again, I was so glad it was a test though, I guess I am a little concerned how well she is doing :-)
I said to her you are playing very seriously at the moment, her reply was "I am, very seriously, you should be worried!"

OMG, a mixed emotion for me of happiness, excitement and fear all at once.

Very good tease

I said I would let you enter me tonight, I never said how far and I never said I was going to remove you device

I love this outfit



Tuesday 8 January 2013

8/1 Update

I've been locked for a few days and I've been good so far this week, I received a text message today "Friday night we will get takeaway have a bottle of wine then tease time" Wow what a great message to receive out of the blue, it made my day.

Seems like she is interested in playing the game not just doing it to keep me happy.

I texted back and thanked her, then I asked how long I would be locked for as we haven't yet set a release date, there was a long pause before the reply so I knew she was giving it some careful thought, she replied with valentines day. Again wow that's six weeks away and we've already been playing for 2. A total of 8 weeks if we can keep it going.
It will be a challenge for me but in a good way, in the past she was always to lenient, I expected the reply to be something like this weekend, another really positive change.

I'm not sure if I have explained before, at the moment I'm only locked in the evenings and weekends. This is due to the bulkiness of my device.
It's not a problem as such but often in the past I've not put it back on and she has forgotten, leaving me unlocked and often bringing and end to the game.
Imagine my surprise when she texts me as I'm about to leave work "If you don't lock up any night this week as soon as you get in the forfeit will be no tease on Friday" What a great idea she is turning the responsibility onto me and by failing to comply I will lose a very pleasurable tease.

Feels like she is finding her feet with things, I am so pleased and reinvigorated with the game. It could be true what they say about careful what you wish for.......Perhaps I'm creating a monster.......

Sunday 6 January 2013

Dressed up for release night

He's been locked for 3 months.
Seeing her all dressed ready for him with his key makes every day of the wait worth it, he knows he's in for a great night.

The worry in the back of his mind is, how long will she make him wait for his next release? 4 months? 5 months? More?

It's seems unfair, but its what we agreed



6/1 Update

It's been a bit up and down recently.
She left the keys lying around twice before new year. New Years Eve was the worst, they were left on my bedside table.

I let myself out as I was so disappointed that my gift was, what felt like to me being disrespected. I've asked a couple of times to talk it through but we've both been busy.

She assured me today that she does want to continue the game. She also asked that I install a combination key box out of the way somewhere for her to keep the keys. I have done this and presently I am locked back up.

I didn't cheat whilst I was out (it was close a couple of times) so tomorrow marks my second week without orgasm.
I think my denial period will be until valentines which will be seven weeks.

I am so happy to be locked back up.
Let's hope we can build up a routine and stay on track.